A high number of pool and spa and service-industry leaders and owners that I’m coaching right now have shared how they are struggling with holding their employees accountable during their busy season. They hold back from having tough conversations because their employees are already stressed out and working at maximum capacity. They fear that their employees will simply quit if they give them feedback and hold them accountable to a higher standard of performance.
As a result, many leaders avoid hard accountability conversations, and instead, opt to do the work themselves. However, this will only result in resentment and ultimately burn out.
Engaging in accountability conversations is both a science AND an art.
Which leads us to step 3 in engaging hard conversations…
3. RECOGNIZE THAT MANY EMPLOYEES (AND OURSELVES, AT TIMES) WANT TO AVOID ACCOUNTABILITY.
- We avoid accountability because we are afraid of failing; of looking bad; of being judged by others.
- We’re afraid of being punished if things don’t turn out. It seems easier to keep our head down and wait to react to what shows up.
- We explain why we shouldn’t be held accountable to doing what we said we’d do.
- However, when we operate as our “word” (the verbal or written promises or commitments that we make to others) , we give up the excuses we used in the past. Instead, we are actively measuring our follow through, results and completions over time.
4 Actions to take to LEAD and LIVE this powerful principle this week:
- Ask yourself, “Where in my leadership am I currently avoiding being accountable?” What promises and commitments have I made to others that I am not following through on?
- What reasons or “excuses” am I making for not following through on the promises I have made to others or to my team?
- Who do I need to have an accountability conversation with in the next 5 days?
- By when will I have that accountability conversation? Identify a date, time, and ideally schedule and meeting and put it in your calendar!
Please post any challenges (or breakthroughs) you are experiencing with engaging in accountability conversations during your busy season.
I’d LOVE to hear from you. There is HUGE power and support in community!